Rich Graske, MA, LMFT, CSAT

Rich enjoys counseling with men, women, seniors, couples, adolescents, and entire families.  He has educated and counseled couples on marriage and pre-marriage issues since 1987 as a PREPARE/ENRICH counselor. Rich has over 15 years of corporate executive experience and coaches men and women struggling with career or workplace issues. He especially enjoys helping those who feel powerless or stuck in conflicted relationships or situations. Although he works with clients on a large variety of issues, his special interests include:


I believe in short-term, solution-focused therapy rather than life-long counseling for my clients although some issues do take longer to address than others. I endeavor to be encouraging and nonjudgmental. I do not view my clients as broken and needing me to fix them. I view them as capable individuals struggling as we all do from time to time in life. Life happens! Relationships are hard. Being only human, all of us are far from perfect. I believe God uses the challenges we face as opportunities for transformation into the image of Christ. To experience optimal growth, we must be willing to surrender to the transformation process. It is not easy, but it is rewarding.

As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, I understand the shame and self-hatred that frequently holds people in the addictive cycle and the impact ongoing inappropriate behaviors can have on marriages, families, careers, and finances. Admitting we are powerless over certain behaviors and surrendering our lives to God can truly set us free.

Licensures & Certifications

  • MN Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Education & Additional Training

  • Adler Graduate School, MA in Counseling and Psychotherapy; Marriage and Family Therapy
  • St. Mary’s University, BA in Computer Science
  • International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP), over 150 hours of Certified Sex Addiction Therapist training and supervision
  • Hamline University School of Law Dispute Resolution Institute, MN Supreme Court Certified Mediation Skills Training for Family Mediation
  • Life Innovations, Inc., PREPARE/ENRICH Premarital & Marriage Enrichment Facilitator

Selected Links

Selected Books


  • Becoming One: Emotionally, Spiritually, Sexually, by Joe Beam
  • Sacred Marriage, by Gary Thomas
  • Healing the Hurt in Your Marriage, by Dr. Gary & Barbara Rosberg
  • Torn Asunder: Recovering from Extramarital Affairs, by Dave Carder
  • Divorce-Proof Your Marriage, by Dr. Gary & Barbara Rosberg
  • Boundaries in Marriage, by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
  • Not “Just Friends”, Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity, by Shirley P. Glass, PhD

Mens & Womens Issues

  • Adult Children: The Secrets of Dysfunctional Families, by Dr. John Friel and Linda Friel
  • The Anxiety & Phobia Workbook, by Edmund Bourne, PhD
  • The Dance of Anger: A Woman’s Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships, by Harriet Lerner, PhD
  • TrueFaced: Trust God and Others With Who You Really Are, by Bill Thrall, Bruce McNicol, John Lynch
  • Shattered Vows: Hope and Healing for Women Who Have Been Sexually Betrayed, by Deb Laaser
  • Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction, by Dr. Mark R. Laaser
  • Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction, by Dr. Patrick Carnes
  • Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself, by Melody Beattie
  • Brain Lock: Free yourself from Obsessive-Compulsive Behavior, by Jeffrey Schwartz, MD
  • The Introvert Advantage: How to Thrive in an Extrovert World, by Marit Olsen Laney
  • Mending A Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts, by Stefanie Carnes, PhD
  • Never Good Enough, by Monica Ramirez Basco, PhD
  • Starting Over: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Rebuild Your Life after a Breakup, by Thomas Whiteman, PhD and Randy Petersen
  • Total Forgiveness, by R.T. Kendall

Parenting, Child, & Teen

  • Losing Control and Liking It: How to Set Your Teen (and Yourself) Free, by Tim Sanford
  • Yes, Your Teen is Crazy: Loving your Kid Without Losing Your Mind, by Michael Bradley
  • Every Young Man’s Battle: Strategies for Victory in the Real World of Sexual Temptation, by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker
  • Boundaries with Kids, by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
  • Boundaries With Teens: When to Say Yes, How to Say No, by Dr. John Townsend